Summer loving
Begins July 2023
Are you a single woman ready to make this summer unforgettable?
Are you looking for a dating program that combines fun, personal growth, and the opportunity to find love?
This is it!
The Summer Loving 3 month mini-mastermind is designed to empower and guide you on a transformative journey. Over the course of three months, you'll embark on a thrilling adventure of self-discovery, learn valuable dating skills, and create meaningful connections with like-minded individuals.
You are the focus of Summer Loving and your dating life becomes your practice playground. You will be provided with valuable insights, practical advice, and proven strategies to enhance your dating skills and boost your confidence. You'll learn how to embrace your unique qualities, communicate effectively, and navigate the dating world with grace and authenticity. You will learn to date in a way where every date propels you closer to your love vision.
Join a community of like-minded women who are on the same journey as you. The design of the program fosters a supportive and empowering environment where you can share your experiences, receive guidance, and cheer each other on. Together, we'll celebrate your successes and overcome any obstacles that may arise. The bonds you form within this community will be invaluable as you navigate the world of dating. Plus you’ll be connected in between calls in our private group chat (think sleepover with all of your besties kinda vibes).
This is for:
the woman that is feeling burnt out on dating
the woman ready to meet her match
but feeling overwhelmed by the process
the woman that deeply desires partnership
but is frustrated and ready to throw in the towel
the woman who uses the research, “single, child-free women are the happiest” to justify her current status
the woman that regularly uninstalls and reinstalls her dating apps every couple of weeks
This is also for the woman that has expressed any of the following:
“All the good ones are taken”
“Why do I keep attracting unavailable people, weirdos, and broken birds?
“I'm exhausted!!”
“I’ll never meet someone on my level.”
“I’m tired of being the single friend with all the funny (horror) stories.”
“What if they don’t exist?”
"I think I may end up alone."
“Online dating, wtf?!”
Requirements to participate in Summer Loving include
a willingness to :
have fun
be kind to yourself
adopt a new perspective
be active on at least one dating app
go on dates (they provide real time feedback)
show up live for the calls or catch the replays
give up sh!t talking the population you want to date for 3 months
connect with our community at least 1x/wk in the group chat
This is NOT for you if:
you believe your current status is as good as it gets
you approach life with a fixed mindset
you believe your soulmate is going to knock on the door while you're sitting on your couch
you believe it happens when you least expect it (it's a lie btw)
Are you ready
for deep, nourishing connections?
authentic confidence?
to meet your person or people?
to feel cherished, empowered, intimately
connected and free?
to try an approach to dating that works better than anything you have done before?
a little bit of my Story
My life experiences were such that for the longest time I did not feel worthy or deserving of love from a partner. Which honestly is super valid based on my lived experiences and trauma (if you are a human you've experienced trauma).
My main patterns were attracting emotionally unavailable men and trying to prove my worth OR attracting fixer-uppers and dating their potential. If I were with an unavailable man I knew he wouldn't be able to form an intimate connection and I would be safe from pain + heartbreak. Similarly, if I dated potential they needed me more than I needed them (another protective mechanism). Spoiler alert: this did not prevent me from experiencing pain.
I was not doing this intentionally.
Most of this was happening at a subconscious level.
In a way, this was brilliant.
Trauma responses ARE brilliant.
They allow us to adapt and survive AND they may not be necessary anymore as an adult trying to date.
My dating life was a reflection of the core wounds, “I'm not enough" + "I'm too much."
They run deep and they still get activated. The difference is, I now have the awareness and the tools to work with my core wounds as they are activated so that they do not run the show.
For years and years it was one similar dating experience after another until the moment I realized, the common denominator in my love life was ME.
So I finally opened a promotional email from a coach I had found a few years prior. I think it was the first time I read one of her emails, even though I had been on her email list for over a year.
I booked the 30 minute discovery call and signed up shortly after.
But first I want to tell you about the final straw of 2018 that led to me making that phone call,
The Final Straw.
I had been dating a seemingly quality man for a few months and it seemed to be going well until he told me, “I can’t support what you do, I wish you would go back to church.” Wait, what?!
It was the clearest sign to break it off. It was also pretty bizarre. He basically got freaked out when a manifestation practice I taught him, worked.
I was so tired of starting each relationship idealistic and hopeful that it could be "the one" and always ending up disillusioned + disappointed.
Even though it was painful, I had enough self worth at that point to know I deserved better than that!
AND
instead of blaming him, I decided to look inward
(and I hired a coach).
I was the common denominator of these sh*itty situationships and while I couldn't change anyone else, I knew I had the power to change how I showed up and in turn, what I attracted.
SO,
I started to date with a new perspective
I clarified my love vision
I healed abandonment wounds
(healing is an ongoing process)
I learned to recognize when the different Taryns were showing up in dating
(inner child, inner teen, college Taryn)
I used energy, mindset, and embodiment practices to call in better and healthier matches
EVERYTHING CHANGED WHEN I DID.
I met men with ease (on and off-line).
I started having fun on dates, even the horrible ones!
I stopped pursuing men and was pursued.
I showed up more confidently in intimacy.
I learned to ask for what I want.
I became a magnet for my desires.
The quality of dates I go on and the people I attract has exponentially improved.
I went from a man repelling, emotionally unavailable man magnet,
to
someone that has fun on dates, attracts quality humans, and feels confident + authentic in the process of actualizing a dream partnership.
After integrating this work into my life ........
On 2 seperate occasions, the men I was dating rearranged their lives for me and moved to the small town where I lived.
I didn't think I was that WORTHY, but I AM!!!
On my 36th birthday, I was hospitalized with asymptomatic chlamydia. The treatment required IV antibiotics and the sweet man I was seeing (who didn't give it to me) spent 4 days by my side painting my nails, watching trash tv with me, cuddling me in a twin sized hospital bed, and doing my laundry at home.
I didn't think I was THAT lovable, but I AM!!!!
A few months later I was flown across the country for a first date, and everything was paid for!!!
I never thought I'd be THAT woman, but I AM!!!
Then I met a dreamboat in Hawaii who had just opened his relationship and his girlfriend helped plan our 2 days together including booking us a beach-front hotel room. Talk about an expansive experience!
Yes, that was real life!
I am regularly treated like a queen by available* men
(*excluding the Hawaii guy, but that experience was transformative in so many other ways)
It's expansive. It's incredible. It's healing.
It is the result of this work.
I haven't met my match yet (I don't think) but I keep doing this work because I enjoy the process and it provides continued evidence that what I desire is making it's way to me.
I have never felt so seen, so loved, and as cherished as I do now.
It is truly a complete 180 from where I began.
You get to have your own version of this.
I know your brain might be telling you things like,
"easy for her to say,
but that would never happen for me"
"I don’t need to pay for love coaching,
I just need to eat better and go to the gym"
"Once I feel good about myself,
I’ll be ready to date"
"There really aren’t any good ones left,
I’ve already tried"
"It happens when you least expect it.”
REALITY CHECK
Your version of an epic dating life IS available to you.
You don't NEED this program, but I guarantee it will improve your dating experience (and your life).
You are ready enough and healed enough to start dating now.
There are 8 billion people in the world, OF COURSE there is more than one compatible match for you.
It happens when you believe you are worthy of it
(and with some help from the universe).
PROGRAM Details
3 month mini-mastermind
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4 calls a month + 1 integration week
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workshop and hot seat style coaching
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group telegram channel for ongoing support
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downloadable dream dating workbook
*all calls will be recorded if you cannot make it live*
Begins July 5th
Wednesdays @ 8pm EDT/5pm PDT
Desiring even more support?
Add on the Love Upgrade for an extra monthly 1:1 coaching call
Month 1: The Foundation
Examine your current beliefs, blockages, and patterns in love + relationships. Learn the process of dating for personal growth and apply as you start going on dates!
Month 2: Your Love Vision
Fine tune your vision for love, learn the mindset, energetic + embodiment practices to become the energetic match for what you desire. This month is a little bit of strategy, a little bit of magic and a lot of fun.
Month 3: Dating + Communication
Aquire the tools to keep your dating journey fun and expansive. Learn how ritual can support your process. Celebrate who you have become and what you now attract.
payment options
Choose the payment plan that feels best to you.
*billed monthly*
Add the Love Upgrade *1:1 monthly call* for even more support.
Doors close July 3, 2023
Limited to 15 people.
Meet Taryn
Taryn is the hype girl you want to have in your world!
She combines her background in occupational therapy, trauma informed coaching, intimacy training, and outdoor education to support dreamers, visionaries + hopeful romantics in actualizing their daydreams.
Taryn is a life and business coach for creatives and entrepreneurs (although people in the corporate world find their way to her too!)
Examples of clients she supports include: freelance artists and creatives, actors, writers, healthcare and wellness professionals + business owners, entrepreneurs, coaches, fitness studio owners, and even a mobile petting zoo!
Her work supports clients in connecting with their healthiest, intuitive selves in order to take safe leaps, undo people pleasing conditioning + and step into their power, authentically.
Some of Taryn’s superpowers include her adventurous spirit, openness to new experiences, and willingness to try almost anything once (or a few times).
From joining the Peace Corps, to flight attending, nannying, barista-ing, returning to grad school later in life, practicing occupational therapy in over 5 settings, moving all over the country by herself, learning to ski as an adult, leaving her “safe benefits job” to go all in on her own dreams, and now traveling the world as a digital nomad, she's the best coach to support YOU in actualizing YOUR dreams!
Spend one hour with her, and you will feel capable of just about anything! She knows when to hype you up and when to gently call you in. She empowers you to be your most authentic, truest self! From there, anything is possible.
When you work with Taryn you feel seen, supported, inspired, and empowered.
